What to do When Your Partner Calls You by the Wrong Name
Now if you are like me, you have had your partner call you by the wrong name during intimate times in your life. What makes it even worse is that she called me by her dad's name...so I don't know what was going on in that family, but at least I got out of it. I have also nonchalantly called a current girlfriend by a past girlfriends name because I have gotten too comfortable and it reminded me off a before time. Now there are several things that you would want to do if you are called by the wrong name by a partner.
1. Definitely Get Upset
You want your partner to see your disdain for them calling you by the wrong name. DON'T GET ANGRY about being called the wrong name because that will cause other problems, just get upset. By getting upset, you can change the entire mood of anything to make sure that your partner understands their inappropriate behavior. For example, if you were in the middle of intercourse, stop and roll over and sigh. This will make them question their existence and also make them need to pamper you and who doesn't want to get pampered?
2. Question Yourself
Is your name really Kevin, or Alicia? Like have you not known for your entire life and maybe this person is finally showing you the truth of your life. Maybe you were adopted and your foster parents were so worried that you would be made fun of for being different so they renamed you and your partner is finally showing you the light.
3. Question Your Partner
Who is this Kevin? Who is this Alicia? Why are you calling me that and what of my personality and physical traits remind you of them? Were your eyes closed and you were imagining them when you said it? Come on, give me the details! When questioning your partner, you have to get precise and straight to the point, but if you already know this detail, then you can skip this section. For example, I knew that my girlfriend's dad's name was Kevin and that she didn't know any of Kevins. She probably has daddy issues now that I think about it.
They definitely didn't say someone else's name. You must've had a voice inside your head telling you. Continue going about your day, but in your mind, you will think that they said someone else's name. When you get home at night or see them again, make sure to question them to see if they said someone else's name. If they continue to say no, then they must've said no.
They said it and you know it. It is now the hardest point in the relationship in which the fighting commences. Take out your boxing gloves because they will bring up every little detail about you that they dislike and it will hurt. Only the strongest couples make it out of the acceptance portion alive, many ends up perishing away. Don't worry because you have the high ground because they said someone else's name. They must be cheating or they don't care about your feelings because they didn't even know your name! Take this to heart and take them down! You got this.